I have found a new respect for those that take it slow. I do not think my natural tendency to push hard has changed. Goals, deadlines, and missions are as tight as they have ever been. The difference lies in knowing when and how to push. At times, the fastest path to the destination is one that also seems the slowest.
Several factors have drawn me into this awareness.
Communities move when everyone shares an understanding of the destination and rationale for how to get there. Yesterday’s consensus is helpful in building a foundation of trust, however it is not a substitute for individual affirmation to the shared values of the community. For a group to move quickly, each step needs to be understood with the related buy-in or trust.
Individuals often trust others because of the past. In general, this can be helpful, however it carries a risk to the group. An old example illustrates the point. “For instance, say you flaunt your freedom by going to a banquet thrown in honor of idols, where the main course is meat sacrificed to idols. Isn’t there great danger if someone still struggling over this issue, someone who looks up to you as knowledgeable and mature, sees you go into that banquet? The danger is that he will become terribly confused—maybe even to the point of getting mixed up himself in what his conscience tells him is wrong.” (1 Corinthians 8.10) Slowing the process down allows individuals time for reflection and personal ownership of their decisions.
Wisdom is often seen more clearly when the reflections of individuals become the reflections of a community. Said another way, while one assumes others are taking responsible choices, do we really know? Do we understand their reflections? Have we shared our fears and doubts? Are we thinking as a community or a collection of individuals?
Pushing takes one to a dangerous edge. Being on the edge with caring people is better than going it alone. We do not need to walk by ourselves; Divinity is a member of our family.
