I have come to appreciate the value of individuals in my inner circle. More than friendship, doing things together, and conversation, the power of their wisdom is extraordinary! As I listened to the story of how he reflected and analyzed an opportunity I was involved in, I realized that I was being taken on a very personal journey through his mind. Values, priorities, and tools were candidly shared freely. I was struck by the vulnerability and rawness of it all. This was a heart to heart conversation, rare even among close friends.
As I reflect on the comfort that his wisdom brought me, I realize that the gateway to my inner circle has not always been guarded as much as it should have been. Advice and counsel was accepted indiscriminately. While the openness to new ideas and opportunities was a good character trait to have, the filters of judgment, credibility, and trust were not as they could and should have been. As a result, the options I considered were often not as good as they could have been.
As I think of wisdom that has stood the test of time, I realize that gifts of guidance have been with me for a long time.
Make sure you know the individual you are getting advice from. Said another was, “don’t take up with strange gods, don’t worship the latest in gods.” (Psalm 81.9) Take time to understand the values behind the advice. Affirm the connection between values and actions.
The fact that one is getting good advice should not lead one to assume that the advice should automatically be followed. You and I are responsible for the choices we make. Delegating one’s freedom is never a good idea!
Truth has an interesting way of lasting. It may not be useful now, but at the right time and context, it can be a priceless insight and guide. Accepting truth, letting it permeate, and using it when you believe it is the right time, leads to great choices.
The inner circle came through in a big way; thank-you.
