Riding a motorcycle has an interesting advantage over the traditional experience from a car. Frequently you are sitting at a stop line right next to a driver’s door. While there is, at least on paper, barriers between you and the driver that protect each other’s personal space, in reality one cannot help but notice the details of the driver, his or her mode as told by their face and appearance, and at times the way that they are texting or emailing while the light remains red.
As I think of the experiences over the past week, I find myself reflecting on the following conclusions.
There is, in this sample, a strong correlation between drivers with two hands on the steering wheel and visual happiness (relaxed body posture, smiling faces, and even some singing along with the music only they can hear). How hidden one’s electronic device(s) are within the car and seat seems to be directly linked to the size of the smile when nobody is watching.
The opposite correlation is equally strong. Even when the mobile is upside down and at the edges of one’s reach, one can see early indicators of tension and stress. On almost every occasion, when one is typing at the light, you can see visual indicators of tension, frustration, and at times intense anger! If a call is made as soon as one hits the send button, be prepared! Even late model BMWs are not soundproof.
There is a small group that stands out. Two hands, relaxed posture, and driving that suggests care, awareness, and courtesy. If I find both, it is virtually a sure thing that the person behind the wheel is looking around, smiling, and communicating! It is as if they are following the script set out by the psalmist; “You’re one happy man when you do what’s right, one happy woman when you form the habit of justice.” (Psalm 106.3)
The reminders that these drivers have left me with have influenced my riding style. The experience that follows feels good and is energizing. It’s time to ride.
