I am being reminded how differently individuals can look at the same event. In this case, it is Thaipusum, a Hindu festival that is celebrated today. The celebration is described by the organization behind it as “a thanksgiving festival that involves asceticism and control over one’s senses. It is a day for devotees to celebrate the fulfilment of their vows.” With a four kilometer walk involved and tests of one’s ability to control pain and other senses, it is not for the faint at heart.
There are two schools of thought. One that has listened to the heart of some who have participated, and another that react to a religious expression that is very different from anything in their faith system. To all viewpoints, I would offer a psalm; “Just to remember God is a blessing – now and tomorrow and always.” (Psalm 113.2)
In every faith system, there are rituals and actions that are best understood through the lenses of believers. If the rituals and actions are in the past, current believers often distance themselves from something that is not her/his practice. To those that believe and practice, as odd, unusual, or even extreme that the action might be, one understanding can only be seen in context of a larger picture.
If a ritual does no harm to another, regardless of what I might think of it individually, I hope I will always respect and honor the devotee. We are all members of the same family. It is in respecting and understanding each other that we, collectively and individually, have an opportunity to see and do more than we otherwise could.
My understanding has changed with the passing of time. Without judgement of alternatives views, I have come to love the stories of anyone who believes in a Supreme Being. Each has a story to tell. Belief along with doubts, uncertainties, and wonder are universal themes. The struggle to practice is one shared by many. As I experience to their journeys and practices, I discover a clearer picture of the God I love.