It is dangerous to look at outcomes is isolation. Everyone outcome is an introduction to whatever comes next. When riding in Dubai’s late spring, I am always left with an exuberance and energy from being out on K13 (yes, she has a name). I have learned to appreciate that there is more which comes with the outcome. I need to take care of the bike and myself. Specifically, I will need to rehydrate and wash the salts left as my sweat rapidly evaporated when meeting the hot desert winds.
The reminder takes me to a healthy place. Life reminds me of the importance of staying in the moment even as I prepare for the next. There is a simple reality which I often overlook; every outcome comes with more than I initially anticipate. New relationships will require engagement and participation. Alliances grow when nurtured with care. Conversations are helpful with those who are sharing the journey.
The lessons I keep coming back to include the following.
Any outcome, be it an act of love or an outcome of something bad, is never the end of the story. Each is a notation which marks the start of a story to come. The psalmist captures the final step in an outcome when the victors “distributed their land as booty, His [Divinity’s] love never quits.” (Psalm 136.21). I often think I can skip the chapter which shows how I used the responsibility which came with the booty received.
People and relationships are impacted by the outcomes in my life. Sharing, dialoging, and reflecting are important actions that begin the process of using the outcome for good. I often assume others can see and feel what I have been through. In sharing with open willingness to hear and understand their views, my understanding of an outcome grows.
Outcomes create new doorways through which I must step. I cannot ignore the outcome. Each doorway is an opportunity for me to make a difference. It requires my acceptance with a confirmation expressed through action.
Carpe diem is combined our invitation and calling.
