Recently, a birthday gift did not land as I intended. The fan far, excitement in the eyes, and happiness in the voice was replaced by a dull resignation. A perfunctory thank-you was quickly followed by a “is it ok if I return it”? With my deflated agreement, the gift was soon on the way back with a shared commitment that “we” would be on the quest for a suitable replacement.
“What are your plans for today?”
“Nothing special, just a few errands to run.”
“Have you forgotten so quickly?”
“Forgotten what?”
As I acknowledged a lack of action, I clearly heard the pressing need. Even as I think about it today, I feel the nuances where came through in the question of did you forget. In my case, I had not forgotten but I had also not acted! As I did, I found myself checking the list of people who seemingly have forgotten their promises of action, God included.
The lessons I find myself holding after going into action include the following.
Sharing one’s heart opens the door to hearing and feeling another’s response. There was nothing casual in the question of forgetting so quickly. My response was getting things into action. I skipped past action with the goal of connecting with the immediate. Others before me might have me metaphorical, the psalmist for an example. “Step down out of heaven, God; ignite volcanoes in the hearts of the mountains.” (Psalm 144.5). With emotional candor, there is an opportunity for real connection.
Be open to how people act. Staying with the request of the psalm, I am not sure volcanoes are exactly what I would look for, but awesome displays could be a great start. Beauty in today’s sunrise takes me into the nurture, growth, and possibilities which come with the sun, energy, and warmth.
Let the hand play out. By the end of the day, a new present in hand, everyone was in a great space. I see it on display and being used. In putting a promise into action, we rediscovered our heart connections.
