In a dialogue with founders, one faces an unending list of questions. While they often start with a short list, it feels as if I am in a two-way Q&A with a three-year old. You can anticipate the next question and the one after that – why?
With founders, I am often tempted to add the questions I think they should be asking to the conversation. My goal is to get everything is on the table. As the roles changed and I was the one asking the questions, I realized there was a missing piece to the puzzle which has been around for centuries.
The setting is the psalmist telling God about the new place of worship. He is reveling in his celebration that he delivered on his side of the equation. He is confident that it is all set. Is it?
In my attempts to answer questions, I think I have provided the information and details that s/he was looking for. As I wrap things up, I often see an opportunity to add what I think s/he needs. The challenge is that their minds are still in the question.
The psalmist reminds me of the crucial part of the process I often forget. In response to the answer, is an affirmation. “Yes – I, God, chose Zion, the place I wanted for my shrine.” (Psalm 132.13)
It almost seems like these are unnecessary words. I would suggest that they are critical. Questions of the heart need more than just an answer. Life reminds me that hearing is not the end of the process. Hearing the answer is the prelude to a new chapter. In this chapter one will pause for understanding, reflect for learning, and see the opportunity which now opens itself up as a cause for celebration.
The affirmation and celebration which follows nurtures one’s trust and confidence. It feeds one awareness and vision. In the end, one can see with new eyes and an open heart. Creating space for affirmation and confirmation is a way of celebrating relationships. It is a step forward, together.
