I walk into a situation today where, for the first time in three years, I do not know the good guys from the bad ones. Almost everyone has equal standing, and I know some are already aiming for me! For a long time, I have had the luxury of having a close business allay and a battalion of good friends that I could depend on in unknown situations. We were constantly comparing notes and discussing our observations so that we could be prepared. We worried about each other, and covered the flanks.
Now, who will I accept as a friend? Who will I choose to associate with? Who will I let into my confidence? Will I be willing to break these early bonds if they become toxic?
The risks are there and I know it. The potential back stabbers are lurking; some currently report to me. The good news is that I know the danger is here and I can do something about it. The bad news is that I do not know where I can place my trust.
“So friends, listen to me, takes these words of mine most seriously. Don’t fool around with a women like that [evil]; don’t even stroll through her neighborhood.” (Proverbs 7.24, 25)
As I listen to Solomon’s warning, my eyes begin to see what is around me. I am not safe where I am, even as I look at the scene through ignorant eyes. I am paralyzed with my sight, unwilling to make the tough decisions which means I am doomed.
I make a couple of early decisions when I came to London. I placed bets on two or three persons; I believed that their friendship would be ones that I could be proud of and that they would be my guards. I was right, but I still missed one critical point. I realize that taking God on as a friend and allay is the most important decision I will ever make. He alone has the firepower I need; she is my nurture and support.
God is with you.
