As I go through the process of presenting different ideas on how we can move forward, I find myself surprised by a response that is increasingly common. For some, the process centers on information and understanding. They have a need for more information and greater understanding. Through our conversation, a growing awareness of how the idea can work emerges.
Alternatively, the introduction of an idea gets a different reception. Instead of information, the conversation shifts to exploring the ways that those in the conversation believe. We talk about how the idea works, its benefits and weaknesses. We celebrate the ways the idea helps move us towards our shared priorities and goals. In the best of these conversations, we talk about how we can take the idea to an even better place.
I recently went through six individual conversations on the same subject. One was an information gathering and understanding exercise. We ended up celebrating our agreement on how the ideas would take us forward, however this only happened in the last five minutes. In the other five, we spent the early part of the conversation exploring how the ideas played out in reality. In each, the ideas provided the foundation for a conversation around the possible! New ideas emerged. Hope was recognized. Communities recognized each other.
As I look around me, I wonder if I understand how far this approach extends in my life. Am I convinced that the ideas I talk about actually make sense and work? Do I believe they are a step towards something better? Am I looking for others in this community?
An old saying observes that “Once you’re convinced that he [God] is right and righteous, you’ll recognize that all who practice righteousness are God’s true children.” (1 John 2.29)
Today dawns with the sun providing a warming thrust in contrast to the crisp air around me. The contrast reminds me of the challenge we face. My commitment is that I will reach for something more. Concurrently, I will look to embrace those around me who are reaching along with me.
