A store that has been in the area for more than fifty years, commissioned a piece of art that hangs on the third floor. The lightbox in the shape of a year, 1974, reflects a black and white photograph of the original store location in Beirut. As I looked at the store, I recognised haircuts, jean designs, and so much more. If the definition of great art is an emotional response, this one was, for me, stunning.
As I reflected, then and now, I find myself standing in 1974 and looking to the future. As I imagined what would be, I recall thinking then “Why I don’t think there’s any comparison between the present hard times and the coming good times.” (Romans 8.18) I was so confident, predictably naïve, and yet hopeful of what was to come. Looking back, I would gift myself with lessons I have only found with time.
The best moment you have in life is the one right now. It was never about the angst at the moment, every day has some measure of difficulty, pain, or uncertainty. It will always be about the choice one has in the present. Hope offers to be with me, will I let her? Kindness is often the best answer, is this the one I am going to choose? I can be better than I was, will I try? Right now, is my opportunity to live, choose happiness, and be intentional.
In our dreams and fears, I often find myself shying away from the big stuff and looking for the easy walk. In being aware of this, look for balance. Going big because you think nobody believes you can be decisions for learning. Shrinking from an opportunity may waste life’s gifts. Slowly down long enough to understand what life is trying to teach will create a foundation for a better future.
Celebrate every success, even if it is not yours. Forget making comparisons. There is more to life when one experiences it with others. Living big is walking together, celebrating, and looking to support each other.
