One naturally presumes that wisdom comes with age and experience. In my experience, there should be no question that there is an opportunity for wisdom with age and experience. The “but” rests on the word opportunity. Just because there is an opportunity, no matter how compelling and attractive as it might be, one should never assume that one embraced the obvious. The implied premise within should not ever been assumed! One may have wisdom, however, one may not use what one has! Acting in wise ways has little to no direct correlation to the amount of wisdom that one should or could have.
Recent history reminds me that I am no different from those I observed. As I watched a friend stumble, I wondered how he failed to see it coming. As we looked back on the situation together, I candidly asked him what he had done with the wisdom I was sure was within reach in his back pocket.
Looking me directly in my eyes his reply caught me off guard. “I’ve been stupid to play by the rules; what has it gotten me?” (Psalm 73.13)
I had not considered the question. I never thought I would hear him express the question. As I reflected on his candor, I could see how easily the rhetorical question has lived deep within my heart. While I have rationalized certain actions differently, the harsh reality is that my actions have been my answer to the same question. There is an undeniable desire to fast forward to the right answer! I can see it. I know it is what I need. I think I cannot afford to wait. In all honesty, I am scared that things are not going to work out as I hope.
Even as I vocalize my thoughts in words, I find myself embracing my deepest values and aspirations. You and I do not have to give into the temptation and drawn of the dark side. We can stand up for principle and ideals. Acknowledging the draw is the first step in reaching for the best.
