As I casually waited to link up for dinner, I found myself sitting where I could see and hear several different bars and restaurants. My position was perfect for taking in the scene. The mix of dress, behaviors, and unfolding dramas was great entertainment! It was as if I were watching a micro version of the world playing out on a stage.
My silent observation came to an abrupt halt when I hear a familiar voice booming through the PA system of a bar across from me. Even though I have only talked to him once in the last few years, it was as if it was yesterday! My eyes focused in on the scene and I realized I was looking at a crazy mix of blue jean dominated casual, black tie tuxes and glamorous dinner dresses. Simmering gold blended with ratty jeans, effortlessly. Crisp black and white outfits stood next to casual summer dresses. Without identifying either extreme as object of my observation, it was as if one or both were modeling how to be “pretentious with arrogance, they wear the latest fashions in violence.” (Psalm 73.6)
Even as I think back, I realize how often I have fallen into the trap of arrogant confidence and self-assurance. It is far too easy to slip into behaviors. It is as if it happens and only by accident does one see what has always been in the mirror.
I enjoy dressing up. Tuxes, bow ties, and cufflinks have a special place in my memories. I love being part of life’s formalities as well as the moments of just being. Both have their place. The contrast from the evening scene continues to stay with me as a reminder. A humble spirit can live in every setting. Compassion has a place, in spite of or because of what else is happening. Why we do what we do, how we approach the situations, and what we say and do matters. As I was reminded, others will remember the trail of our actions long after we have forgotten and moved on.
