I am biased, especially when it comes to Indian sweets. I looked through the glass at the counter, frustrated with the display. I could not imagine any rational thoughts that put rasagulla in front of gulab jamuns. Realising my favourite was behind my brother’s, I wrestled with frustration and annoyance. Even as I smiled at my thoughts and emotions, I heard whispers asking about the details I had shared with friends and family.
I do not think I ever acknowledged the popularity of rasagullah. I did not mention how often these had brought joy to others in my childhood. If I dramatised my view, I would pull out the old observation while playing both roles, “The old priesthood of Aaron perpetuated itself automatically, father to son, without explicit confirmation by God.” (Hebrews 7.20).
As I look at the day ahead, I wonder what messages, themes, and values I will share with others. What are they? How are they validated and affirmed? The lessons I hear include the following.
Words and actions anchored with thought and care open the door to our aspirations. It is easy to be overwhelmed and respond impulsively in the moment. Taking time and care to be intentional will reveal the values and priorities closest to one’s heart. As I slow down and become fully present, I create space and time to step towards my best future.
Knowing one’s heart is essential to actions of caring and kindness. When my actions do not reflect my aspirations, life reminds me to look towards my heart and soul. The problem is not with others; it is within. The solution lies in returning to a place of quietness, truth, and compassion to let Divinity restore what is less than ideal.
Being ready comes from investments one has already made. The time and commitment I make now to care for my heart and soul are essential if I want to be prepared for the future. In every moment, there is a window for kindness and care. I can try things the hard way or make it easy.
