Molly was rescued from the streets of London. There is little know about her early days. Looking back on her life post adoption, it was clear that Molly accepted her new family with the intensity, determination, and strength that Rhodesian Ridgebacks are known for. The characteristics were ones that defined her every day of her life, sometimes in negative ways, yet always with the best of intents.
In her youth, words that told her story included muscular, ruthlessly efficient movement, extraordinary endurance, beautiful (at a hound’s best), and intensely loyal (protective). The combination made her a great friend, even if you were like me not her #1 (or 2, or 3. I was 4th on her “A” list).
As I reflect on her life, I realize that she was an amazing example of the psalmist’s description; “God is sheer beauty, all-generous in love, loyal always and ever.” (Psalm 100.5) Yes, she was a dog, but she exemplified these traits. The linkage between Molly with all her weaknesses and Divinity may seem a stretch yet let me suggest the following.
Beauty in all its forms takes the observer to a place where s/he always longs to be. Even as I write the words my mind replays images, scenes, acts of kindness, and the smiles of children. Each brings hope, awe, and a sense of possibilities. Given or received, an experience of beauty changes everyone it touches.
Being generous is the best thing we can do for ourselves, as well as for others. I often start with the other, forgetting that the person closest to me who is intensely longing for acceptance, understanding, and compassion is myself. The act of generosity, like beauty, changes the giver, receiver, and all who bear witness.
Standing by her man, be it a husband or son, is something my mother modeled every day of her life. Molly was another example in her day. Often one takes it for granted while the giver is alive, treasuring and savoring it when it is gone.
Thanks Molly for the gifts of beauty, wonder, and belonging.
