Recent events remind me that I do not control the outcome. There might be a few exceptions. Perhaps my decision about what I eat and the outcome which follows as my body responds, has a direct link of control. However, if the outcome also includes others, then I am not in control! If the outcome also includes the decisions made by others along with their actions and how their outcomes mix with the outcomes of others, there is little if any control on my part.
The rhetorical question remains relevant. If I know this to be true, then why do I catch myself trying to control the outcome?
Life reminders include the following.
Good will ultimately take care of evil. I do not stand a chance in a straight up battle with evil! Evil triumphs without extra effort. Letting go of the battle, releasing this into greater hands is always better than sacrificing myself on a pillar of arrogant foolishness. In the face of evil, the best answer is to give the fight to another. Live to be a witness that “God ripped the harnesses of the evil plowmen to shreds.” (Psalm 129.4)
Each moment is an opportunity to be intentional. I can use the freedom I have to take decisions and act. I can be fully in the moment, in control of my voice, my hands and feet, and even my ability to listen. The choice is mine. Releasing this to another is abdicating my role and responsibility in being alive.
With ever outcome, the dance begins again. How will I respond? What will I do next?
The reminders focused me on my true calling. Without needing to control the outcome, my opportunity is to model kindness, love, and compassion in every conversation. With each encounter, I can gift another with acceptance and hope. With each decision, I can strive to lift the individuals and families within my community.
I may not control my life’s outcomes. However, I can do my part in making the world around me better through my each choice and action.
