I have a colleague that I would like to work with as a partner. He brings a perspective that I know complements my own. As we recently caught up, I realized that it was doubtful we would ever collaborate or work in a trusted relationship. There was something in the tone of our conversation that sent a very direct message. On one hand I hope I am wrong. While I will try to remain optimistic that a trust based relationship will emerge, I am also realistic. I know it takes two. As I consider the possibilities, I see that it is difficult to trust someone you may not know well.
Who do I trust?
As I considered the question, my relationship with everyone, including Divinity, came under review. I know that I have acted in a way say that I did not trusted many at times. As I think of the incidents were I acted on my own, many I normally trust, again including Divinity, were excluded. I am reminded of an alternative way to approaching trust and partnership.
Commit to the partnership. An old writer reminded God of a divine promise; “You once said, ‘I joined forces with my chosen leader, I pledged my word to my servant.” (Psalm 89.3) As I look back across my story, I realize that God has always been ready to work with me.
Create opportunities that work with contributions from both sides. Partnerships are never a one does all the work while the other enjoys all the upside situations. Instead, in a variation on trust but verify, let the actions of both be the verification that the other is looking for.
Remain open. Again, life reminds me that this is different than remaining dependent. We have opportunities with God and others that trust us that may be squandered or at least left unrealized. In each situation the potential remains.
Commitment, trust, and openness are found on the way to extraordinary outcomes. Today is an opportunity to commit, trust, and embrace the opportunities in my life to work with God.
