As I entered the building for the first time, I had no idea where I was going or what I needed to do. While there were signs leading to a front door, semi-lit stairwell, and a secure door, I desperately wanted to reach out to anyone for guidance. The porch, parking lot, and stairwell were empty and eerily silent.
Now that I have visited several times, I know the silence is usual except for evenings when events are scheduled. I also know there is a back stairwell and entrance that is always unlocked. Once inside, if you have visited more than once, you well be welcomed by name. It is a warm feeling, once you know the protocols and have an experience to build on.
Each time I take someone to this pub for the first time, I find myself revisiting the original experience. I imagine myself in their shoes, except this time there is a guide. While the presence of someone that knows and the assurance that naturally comes with it helps, it does not eliminate the uncertainty that comes from not knowing. The reminders that linger with me include the following.
Walking into the unknown comes with varying amount of fears, uncertainties, and doubts. There is little point in pushing them aside. Acknowledging, embracing, and facing them will lead to new opportunities.
When you see someone facing the unknown, offering to journey with them is a priceless gift. The gift changes the giver as well as the receiver. It also forms a unique bond between the two parties. Even if you do not have the complete solution, insight and directions help.
Experience is a good answer to fears, uncertainty, and doubts. Legitimate risks can be addressed in advanced. Unnecessary worry can be discarded before they take root. Best of all, one can savor the anticipation of what will follow.
I realize the approach is not just for this building and time. Old words still ring true; “Enter with the password: “Thank you!” Make yourselves at home, talking praise. Thank him. Worship him.” (Psalm 100.4)
