I sat down yesterday with a good friend over an ice tea and latte. As we talked for more than an hour and a half, I found myself reconnecting with the heart and mind of an individual I feel privileged to know and honored to walk together with. While there are many sides to how others know him, the characteristics in his life that stand out to me include the following.
Life and individuals are seen though a lens of hope. In weakness and strength, in capabilities as well as the absence of, the lens he sees life is filled with possibilities. The question is never of failure; what matters is what he can do to help take things forward.
Complexity, uncertainty, and risks are never barriers that stand alone, blocking the way forward. They are pieces of a puzzle to be dealt with as part of a plan we share. As real and tangible as threats and barricades can be, they are never the final answer. We are the answer and the solution. If anyone or anything is missing, the only questions is where and when the quest begins to fill the void.
There is a time for intensity. When the time arrives, it is important to see who is joining as natural friends. Whoever they are, they need not include frustration, anger, and punishment! If they do show up, perhaps it is time to send them away and focus on the important matters at hand.
I realized as I left energized that I have missed our conversations. I find myself reflecting, “relishing every fragment of your counsel,” (Psalm 119.48) and looking forward to our next sit down. Until then, I will carry a greater amount of hope, courage, and energy with me!
As I look out on today, there is so much that can be done! A plan with help. Looping in others will make a difference. We can do so much together.
It was a fun reconnection. To anyone sharing a bit of wisdom; thank-you for the insights as well as the reminders.
