In the month of prayer, fasting, and community, the meal to break one’s fast (iftar) at the end of the day is a relief. At every table is a bowl of dates, bringing a rush of sugar and energy to each who is longing for this part of life’s experience. Even when one is not fasting, when hunger hits, the dates bring a unique form of relief and reflection.
Today begins with the memories of last night’s reflection still lingering. The opportunity to receive and give relief can be a powerful experience for everyone involved. In the sweet softness of the dates, I experienced empathy and compassion. In the work to set and stage the table with the dates front and centre, I found myself accepting the gift that others have used the opportunity to prepare. When the scene set by dates, I wondered how far the model could be taken.
Seeing the opportunity applies to giving and receiving.
It is good to seek help. As I recognise my need, the act of asking for help is a positive response to what I am unable to do alone. It is an example set long ago by one of the strongest faith warriors; Paul asked for prayer “that I will be delivered from the lions’ den of unbelievers in Judea. Pray also that my relief offering to the Jerusalem Christians will be accepted in the spirit in which it is given.” (Romans 15.31)
When the opportunity is here, act. In giving, sharing, and supporting, one experiences Divine love. It is a unique window into the Divine soul. In my experience, each act of selflessness infuses me with hope, courage, and a sense that anything is possible.
Meet and walk on the level. It is in unconditionally accepting each other that we experience the answer to the first cry of our hearts. Our gift to each other is the beginning of knowing what it is to be together as family. This experience creates and opens more opportunities to support others with care on the journey into the future.
