The coaster had a limited life. I was fortunate to have it during its first cycle with no watermarks reflecting earlier stories. I could see the two proof statements supporting that it had less material due to its thickness (thinner than usual) and shape (oval, not round). I wondered how often it would be used before someone decided to move on to the next, consigning this one to the recycle bin.
As I listen to Life’s whispers this morning, I catch myself wondering how many times I recycle old ideas before opening myself up to new ones. Sometimes, I can take tried and true ideas to a new level. There are also times when it is time to start fresh and open myself up to learning, new ideas, and fresh use cases. Knowing when, where, and how to question myself is not always easy. In the quietness of the dawn and a new day, I sense it is a good time to refresh my approach to the process.
Learning and growing are essential to getting more out of life. Repeating yesterday’s approach with each new day will not change anything. In addition to being boring, I find myself repeating mistakes, reinforcing lost opportunities, and wondering aloud if I realise what I am doing. I hear a voice across the generations reminding me that there is “A right time to search and another to count your losses, a right time to hold on and another to let go.” (Ecclesiastes 3.6). Awareness that I have an opportunity is a start that finds value when I act on it.
Less is often more. Fewer words, and sometimes just sitting in silence, can be the best answers to a situation. Direct actions that are clear, decisive, and intentional can bring clarity to the moment. In hearing, seeking clarity, and responding with permission, I discover a sweet spot that brings out my best self in the moment. The first three steps are always within my control. The last, permission, works best when grounded in trust. Trust is consensual, shared, and given.
