With increasing grey hairs, life reminds me that I prefer life’s simple, direct, and tangible things. My old preferences of layers and proxies have given way to the ability to see, experience, and enjoy life as it is. I am still fond of shiny objects, such as status, power, and admiration. It is easy to get seduced and think they are real. Life reminds me they remain hollow and empty. Today begins with whispered reminders of what is pure, authentic, and helpful.
Trust has no substitutes or proxies. It is not always easy to know who and why one trusts someone. With an awareness of this about myself, I know what my heart continues to reveal about my relationships. The results speak for themselves. When compassion, support, and empathy dominate, trust flourishes. When respect, honour, and integrity are centre stage, relationships grow. Trust brings courage, infuses strength to everyone involved, and creates the foundation for collaboration. What seems impossible changes when confronted by people who trust in each other.
Beliefs are strengthened when grounded in experience. I had many beliefs when I was young. My father challenged me to understand their origins and to experience their reality. In an unending response, I continue to work on simplifying my understanding of Divinity and her relationship with me. I still hear the warning of old: “Don’t be lured away from him by the latest speculations about him. The grace of Christ is the only good ground for life. Products named after Christ don’t seem to do much for those who buy them.” (Hebrews 13.9).
As complex as life may be, moments rarely are. I naturally see and make my life complex. It is as if I can see clearly in every possible direction. Life reminds me that my vision of the future is always hazy and the moment I have at hand is precise. My choice is shared with three options. Who comes first, me or others? What drives my view, fear or hope? Can I trust, or will I alone take a view (arrogance)?
Simple steps await.
