The windows open unexpectedly and then pass. The strongest relationships between people come from long periods together, however moments of true togetherness tend to be brief. Examples are endless. The perfect moment for a kiss will not last. The opportunity to talk with a boss is often brief. A romantic dinner cannot start with the hot food grows cold. Physical preparation for competition or adventure is not a one-time event; but adventures and games are. Appointments are set, and even flexible ones are not endless.
I do not see how God created our bodies to sustain long periods of the same high level of emotional energy. We build from a base, exercise to strengthen, and then push to a peak when needed. Our approach to difficult or intense situations requires our full attention. The experience will drain us, physically and emotionally. Rest, recover, reflection, and refocus will then be the order of the day!
The opportunity to complete a difficult conversation depends on a number of factors. Rarely do they keep reoccurring in cycles. Creative inspiration will come again, but next time it will be different. Friendships take time to develop; however, moments of a clear and shared sense of togetherness are usually brief. Physical preparation and exercise often needs a goal and an end so that one can restart the cycle for the next opportunity.
When I stop and look, life is a series of opportunity windows. I wonder which ones I have and will choose. Do my choices reflect my priorities?
The response I want to take is clear. When people are willing to sit and talk; do it!
“Don't tell your neighbor, 'Maybe some other time,' or 'Try me tomorrow,' when the money's right there in your pocket.” (Proverbs 3.28) When the girls want to share a difficult decision, listen, and listen intensely. If I can share – share deeply and fully.
Yesterday, I took advantage of some windows and totally missed others. Today is a fresh set of opportunities. My prayer is with you as you make the decision on each window.
