Talking about enemies during the Christmas holidays may seem odd, but some people are very frustrating! If I reflect on who sits where, perhaps it will put some things in perspective and we can get on with the tasks at hand, like celebrating.
I rarely classify people who disagree with me as enemies; in fact, they are more likely to be friends. Even those who have no time for me, who cannot stand to be in the same room as me, do not fall into what I know as the opposition. Everyone I just listed stands as I do before God. However, the enemy does exist! They frequently show up during the holiday season, looking for fresh prey. They wrap themselves up in religious clothing, often using words that either shower everyone with positive cliches or try to pin you with guilt darts. Paul warns us about them. “They have no intention of living for our Master Christ. They're only in this for what they can get out of it, and aren't above using pious sweet-talk to dupe unsuspecting innocents.” (Romans 16.18)
There are several filters to help you identify who is who. Each filter in itself is not a definitive, however each serves as a warning that you and I cannot ignore.
Do their motives appear driven by compassion for people?
Are they telling you that you are wrong, guilty, or damned? If so, have they earned the right through friendship to make that statement?
Do you believe that someone is trying to force a regime, style, or way of living on you? Are they worried about external behavior?
The unique part of the journey to and with God is that He promises to take care of our enemies. As frustrating as it may be, He says that He will deal with them. Our instructions are to ignore them and focus on those needing encouragement and help.
God loves you unconditionally just as you are. God does not leave you or I the way we are; however, God's change always comes from the inside out.
